
'Cancer' is a small word, but it has the
power to shatter someone's emotions. This life-threatening disease disrupts the
regular functions of the body and can also negatively impact mental well-being.
After receiving a cancer diagnosis, a person may experience mixed emotions such
as fear, sadness, anger, and anxiety. It can take time for a cancer patient to
adjust to the disease and to cope with the required mental strength.
Fear
Fear is a common reaction to cancer, despite
the significant advancements made in cancer treatment over the past decade.
People may be afraid of how cancer will affect their health, personal,
conjugal, family, and work-life, treatment costs, possible side-effects of
treatment, effect on their financial state, and their ability to carry out
their duties.
Anxiety
Anxiety is another common emotion experienced
by cancer patients. The news of cancer can cause a great deal of stress,
leading to the release of anxiety-causing hormones such as adrenaline, which
can result in faster heart rates, excess sweating, dry mouth, and a rise in
blood pressure.
Anger
Anger is often the first emotion that comes
to mind after a cancer diagnosis. Patients may feel angry and ask themselves,
"Why me?" The level of anger might be extreme, especially if the
patient is in an advanced stage, and they may start to show anger towards
themselves, their surroundings, and even the 'Creator.'
Shock
Shock is another common reaction to a cancer
diagnosis. At the very beginning, cancer may not show any symptoms, and
patients may feel numb, especially if they are not too sick. Disbelief is also
common, with some patients needing to undergo a few re-checkups before
accepting their diagnosis.
Guilt
Guilt is often felt by cancer patients who
assume they will be a burden to their family and friends and unable to perform
their duties and responsibilities. Cancer treatment is costly and can affect a
family's financial condition, which can worsen feelings of guilt. However, it
is important to remember that being a cancer patient was not a choice or karma.
Blame
Some patients may blame themselves for their
cancer, believing that their lifestyle choices and habits may have caused it.
Sadness
It is a natural reaction to any illness, and
cancer news can leave a person feeling shattered inside with grief as they
learn more about the possible outcomes of the disease.
Loneliness
Loneliness is another common emotion
experienced by cancer patients. Over time, patients may feel that people are
not paying attention to them (though this may not be in reality), which can
affect them emotionally. If a family member or friend misunderstands or finds
difficulty with any of their words or problems, the patient may assume they are
being ignored. It can cause the patient to feel lonely and become distant from
others.
Loss
of control
A cancer diagnosis can leave patients feeling
as though they have lost control of their life. The sudden news can make them
feel helpless and break down all control of their day-to-day actions. All of a
sudden, they may lose their sense of what to do and what not to do.